MySQL (on Windows 10) + Starting Kodi on another Windows 10/Android -> CRASH

Hi,
I have the following problem:

I installed MySQL on a Windows 10 PC and configured is as described here:
MySQL (wiki)
Running Kodi locally with this setup is working.

When deploying the advancedsetting.xml and starting Kodi on another Windows 10 PC (in the same network),
Kodi crashes…
I tried it also on 2 different Android devices with the same result -> Kodi just shows the startscreen and then hangs.

Logfiles

Kodi log:
https://pastebin.com/5tKz4d2Y

Windows 10 pc with MySQL:
https://pastebin.com/V9Lar72Y

Windows 10 pc with crashing kodi:
https://pastebin.com/AsH3wtzW

Maybe somebody can help…?
thx