Import kodi db file (android and windows) into ms access

I want to import the kodi video library of kodi instances on android and/or windows into an easily accessinle database like access (i have an ms access db running so that would be my first preference). First query would be to highlight all movies that have no audio language specified.
How can i import the kodi lib?
I tried importing the xml created by “export to single file”, but that looses links between video and audio tables it seems (xml structure is lost). Copying the *.db file and importing that doesnt seem to work as i dont know if / how access can read that format.
Any tips?